ROCHELLE VO: Hi! This is Rochelle, Self Evident’s Community Producer. Our show was incubated at the Made in New York Media Center by IFP.
Self Evident is a Studiotobe production, made with the support of our listener community. “ The Store That Called the Cops on George Floyd” by Aymann Ismail for Slate “ Race, Policing, and the Universal Yearning for Safety” featuring Phillip Atiba Goff for the Ezra Klein Show “ Trusting Abundance: A Conversation With Sammie Ablaza Wills” by Lia Dun for Autostraddle “ Charges Dropped in New York City Jaywalking Incident” by ABC News “ Internal Affairs Investigating Columbus Park Incident” by The Lowdown “ We Want Cop-Free Communities: Against the Creation of an Asian Hate Crime Task Force by the NYPD” by the Asian American Feminist Collective Sign up for a bystander Intervention Training to Stop Anti-Asian/Xenophobic Harrassment, by Hollaback! To report a racist micro-aggression, bullying, hate speech, harassment, or violent incident to community advocates, fill out a form at Stop AAPI Hate (multiple translations available)
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In this third of three episodes on community responses to anti-Asian racism during the pandemic, we speak with four people - Rachel Kuo of the Asian American Feminist Collective Sammie Ablaza Wills of API Equality in Northern California and Suja and Iram Amir from American Muslims Uncovered.įrom seeking non-policing solutions for conflict management, to helping intergenerational communities understand how to express what they need most, to challenging the racism that festers in schools across the country, each voice in this episode challenges Asian Americans to ask for fundamental change in how we achieve safety for our communities. We’ve spent time unpacking the simplistic solution of hate crime enforcement, then learning how local activists rallying against anti-Asian hate often reveal a much deeper history of neglect and under-resourcing of immigrant communities. Please call me if you have any questions or suggestions.How can Asian American communities create safety, when the harms of racism and xenophobia are so deeply rooted in our society? Guys who only serve caucasian men will be frequently frustrated anyway! Not all caucasians are attractive, nice or clean. Sometimes we also enjoy ourselves though! And that’s good for the both of us! Because our goal is to please all the men who wish to enjoy a wonderful bodywork. It is not a job to please ourselves though. This is our job, not a boyfriend casting. ConclusionsĮach and every masseur should be serving Massage for asian men and everybody else. Please let me warn you this is an extremely silly and unprofessional statement! He said this:īecause I don’t feel attracted to Asians”. So I decided to make sure next time!”Īnother reason an Asian customer himself told me was also a sad reason for me to know.ĭo you mind serving me? I am a very small man.”Īgain, I need to point out that my service is universal.Ī masseur I know very well once told me. And I felt so frustrated because I was really attracted to this guy’s physical profile. And I recently did! And I felt terrified and angry.
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